For Jennifer Lopez, it was a puzzle how the brain chemistries of two entirely different people match and they decide to live together forever. For Ojani Noa Lopez was the love of his life. Ojani Noa is a Cuban and has immigrated to USA. Ojani and J-Lo met each other, while he was working as a waiter in a Miami restaurant. The things followed one another and the couple tied knots on 22nd Feb, 1997. Within less than a year the actress had become bored of the relationship or as Ojani claims that she had many ongoing relationships, whatever had been the reason the couple got split.

The split has affected J-Lo’s fame in a significant manner. While media has dubbed Ojani as a sweet and nice person, J-Lo is attracting very bad publicity to her.

Even after the break up, J-Lo has left no stone unturned to perturb Noa. He was appointed as a chef at the singer’s restaurant but was fired from the post within months. Apparently J-Lo couldn’t wait longer and married singer Marc Anthony. However Noa – Lo story does not end here. Noa wanted to write a book titled “The Unknown Truth: A Passionate Portrayal of A Serial Thriller”, Lopez became hell bent on stopping the book before it is published. So much so that she got court orders that the detail of their relationship would not go public.

I mean I like the singer/actress. She is kool but she has absolutely no right to turn a man’s life upside down and then walk away. Moreover she should have moral courage to face the publishing of the book, more so if Ojani Noa can, she can also.

Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa